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The Post Game Handshake
A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog about a “violent” weekend in youth and high school sports. The violence occurred in a high school soccer and a high school football game where the players got into it on the field. The disturbance then spilled out onto the streets around the field with the parents and a final incident where parents fought in the stands of a pee wee football game. The next week there was a high school football game that was stopped early due to a fight between
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Nov 144 min read
Finally, a Good News Youth Sports Story
I have been writing this blog for over two years now and the ratio of bad to good stories about youth sports stories is not good. Like they say in the newspaper business, “if it bleeds it leads” and the same seems to go for the blog writing business. Week after week I look for positive youth sports stories only to find stories about parents abusing coaches and game officials, children behaving badly during and following games, the costs of travel/elite/select teams exploding
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Oct 304 min read
A Violent Day in Youth Sports
I sat down this week to write about an incident I read on NJ.com that occurred between St. Peter’s and St. Benedict’s High Schools where a St. Benedict’s player attacked a photographer who was taking pictures of a scuffle that was taking place between both teams following the game. However, on October 7 th there was another article by NJ.com entitled “It was the most violent day ever on NJ sports fields. Are we doing anything about it?” This story talks about three sepa
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Oct 155 min read
Soccer Mom and Social Media
Again, I have come across an article published on NJ.com dealing with parents behaving badly leading to issues for a youth sports team;...
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Oct 24 min read
Coaching Philosphy
Recently, while scrolling Facebook waiting for an appointment I came across the following quote from a site called “The Baseball Aholic”...
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Sep 174 min read
Follow up to my bat flip story
As I have stated before I usually do not get to do follow ups on my blog posts because the matters I write about do not always occur...
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Aug 205 min read
Bat Flipping Incident
Another day, another youth sports controversary and yet another parent running to court to have the court overturn a decision by a youth...
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Aug 75 min read
The Selling Out of Little League
Recently, I finished reading a book entitled “Homestand: Small Town Baseball and The Fight for The Soul of America” by Will...
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Jul 255 min read
How to Keep Youth Sports Coaches from Quitting
In the past I have written quite a lot about what I see the issues are as they relate to youth sports, making our children little...
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Jul 95 min read
Follow up to June 2022 Blog Post
In 2022 I wrote a blog about a youth baseball umpire from New Jersey who was assaulted and suffered a broken jaw and concussion during a...
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Jun 274 min read
Rasing Little Pro's
I recently came across the following quote “My goal isn’t to raise a champion…It’s to raise a child that believes they can become one.” I...
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Jun 113 min read
Teaching how to win and lose gracefully
Recently, I came across the following quote on Facebook: “I would rather watch them lose with good attitude than win with a bad one”...
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May 144 min read
What not to do at your child's youth sporting events
Recently, while scrolling on Facebook I came across a clip from the CBS Morning News that highlighted an organization called 3aathletics...
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Apr 305 min read
More Violence Against Game Officials
So, it looks like it is back to “bad news” blogs for me. I recently started following a gentleman on Instagram named Duke Baxter. Mr....
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Apr 164 min read
A good news blog
I have been stating in my last few blogs finding positive youth sports stories is not always easy as the negative stories always seem to...
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Apr 25 min read
Violence in the Stands
Each week I look for articles or events that are positive in youth sports as, like I have said many times before, I feel that youth...
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Mar 205 min read
Follow up to an Earlier Blog
A few weeks ago, I wrote a few blogs discussing children quitting sports and the mistakes that parents make that cause their children to...
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Mar 54 min read
Celebrating National Girls & Women in Sports Day
February 5th was National Girls & Women in Sports Day, unfortunately I did not find out about it until after the fact and while working...
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Feb 214 min read
Parenting Mistakes that Cause Kids to Quit Youth Sports
Recently, I wrote a blog that discussed a parent discussing her daughter quitting youth sports and the family not knowing that she was so...
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Feb 55 min read
The Transformative Power of Youth Sports
I recently received a Happy New Year email from The Positive Coaching Alliance (PCA) wishing members a Happy New Year and discussing...
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Jan 224 min read
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