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Recently a friend of mine sent me an article that goes to the crux of what I am trying to say in my writing.  The article in the May 2024 Atlantic Magazine by Rich Cohen entitled “The Sad Fate of The Sports Parents”, Mr. Cohen states that “a true sports parent dies twice. ‘There’s the death that awaits us all at the end of a long or short life, the result of illness, misadventure, fire, falling object, hydroplaning car, or derailing train. But there is also the death that com

I was recently speaking with a friend, Dr. Nicholas Molinaro, a sports psychologist and  wrote who an article entitled “The Truth About Competition.” The article deals with a subject near and dear to my heart, youth sports and how the system is set up to “win” and not for “player development.”  I have been saying this for years while writing this blog, the system is set up for coaches to put their best players in the most important positions and ensure they are “coached up” w

It has finally happened: an athlete took the New Jersey Interscholastic Athletic Association (NJISAA) to court in an attempt to overturn the result of a state tennis match and allow it to be replayed due to “alleged improper conduct by an opposing coach and poor officiating in a state semifinal match” the player had lost.  For a few months now I have written blogs about youth/High School sports ending up in court for various reasons with most of them dealing with parents runn

A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog about a “violent” weekend in youth and high school sports.  The violence occurred in a high school soccer and a high school football game where the players got into it on the field. The disturbance then spilled out onto the streets around the field with the parents and a final incident where parents fought in the stands of a pee wee football game.  The next week there was a high school football game that was stopped early due to a fight between

I have been writing this blog for over two years now and the ratio of bad to good stories about youth sports stories is not good. Like they say in the newspaper business, “if it bleeds it leads” and the same seems to go for the blog writing business.  Week after week I look for positive youth sports stories only to find stories about parents abusing coaches and game officials, children behaving badly during and following games, the costs of travel/elite/select teams exploding

I sat down this week to write about an incident I read on NJ.com that occurred between St. Peter’s and St. Benedict’s High Schools where a St. Benedict’s player attacked a photographer who was taking pictures of a scuffle that was taking place between both teams following the game.  However, on October 7 th  there was another article by NJ.com entitled “It was the most violent day ever on NJ sports fields.  Are we doing anything about it?”  This story talks about three sepa

Again, I have come across an article published on NJ.com dealing with parents behaving badly leading to issues for a youth sports team;...

Recently, while scrolling Facebook waiting for an appointment I came across the following quote from a site called “The Baseball Aholic”...

As I have stated before I usually do not get to do follow ups on my blog posts because the matters I write about do not always occur...

Another day, another youth sports controversary and yet another parent running to court to have the court overturn a decision by a youth...

Recently, I finished reading a book entitled “Homestand: Small Town Baseball and The Fight for The Soul of America” by Will...

In the past I have written quite a lot about what I see the issues are as they relate to youth sports, making our children little...

In 2022 I wrote a blog about a youth baseball umpire from New Jersey who was assaulted and suffered a broken jaw and concussion during a...

I recently came across the following quote “My goal isn’t to raise a champion…It’s to raise a child that believes they can become one.” I...

Recently, I came across the following quote on Facebook: “I would rather watch them lose with good attitude than win with a bad one”...

Recently, while scrolling on Facebook I came across a clip from the CBS Morning News that highlighted an organization called 3aathletics...

So, it looks like it is back to “bad news” blogs for me.  I recently started following a gentleman on Instagram named Duke Baxter.  Mr....

I have been stating in my last few blogs finding positive youth sports stories is not always easy as the negative stories always seem to...

Each week I look for articles or events that are positive in youth sports as, like I have said many times before, I feel that youth...

A few weeks ago, I wrote a few blogs discussing children quitting sports and the mistakes that parents make that cause their children to...